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You don't have to go alone; I'll walk with you.

Healing is here, and it's waiting for you.

Healing is here, and it's waiting for you.Healing is here, and it's waiting for you.Healing is here, and it's waiting for you.
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"Death Is Nothing At All" by Henry Scott-Holland

Death is nothing at all.
It does not count.
I have only slipped away into the next room.
Nothing has happened.
Everything remains exactly as it was.
I am I, and you are you, and the old life that we lived so fondly together is untouched, unchanged.
Whatever we were to each other, that we are still.
Call me by the old familiar name.
Speak of me in the easy way which you always used.
Put no difference into your tone.
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow.
Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes that we enjoyed together. Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word that it always was.
Let it be spoken without an effort, without the ghost of a shadow upon it. Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same as it ever was.
There is absolute and unbroken continuity.
What is this death but a negligible accident
Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight
I am but waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near, just round the corner.
All is well.
Nothing is hurt; nothing is lost.
One brief moment and all will be as it was before.
How we shall laugh at the trouble of parting when we meet again! 

Who I am

My name is Xingyue, I am a Death Doula and Certified Grief Coach. I have training in several areas such as pediatric hospice and palliative care, ambiguous loss, suicide loss, and loss as a result of trauma. 


Death is an absolute. It will inevitably visit everyone, directly or indirectly. My goal is to help my clients navigate through the grief, not ignore it. We experience grief because we loved. 


How we experience grief is unique to us. There is no right or wrong way. All emotions are normal, allowed, and valid. I want to be there to listen to you, support you, hold space for you, and facilitate growth through this experience.


A Deathwalker can be defined as someone who walks with death. Someone who understands mortality and is familiar with the dying process.  Deathwalkers often possess a deeper comprehension of the ephemeral nature of life. A Deathwalker is not simply aware of death; they are actively engaged with it, either directly or indirectly. 


Death can be frightening, and I don't expect you to have to be brave at first - I'll do that for you. I'm here to empower you, and understandably, that can take some time. I'm here for as long as you need me and I'll be strong for you when the weight is just too much to bear.


Although I cannot rescue you from your pain, I will sit with you, offering my light and unconditional understanding.       


What is a Death Doula?

A Death Doula is someone who assists individuals and their families through the dying process, during and after. We are non-medical personnel, we do not administer medications, and we are bound by the NEDA (National End of Life Doula Alliance) code of ethics and scope of practice guidelines. Where a nurse's job ends, mine begins. My job is not to keep you alive, but to assist you during the dying process. Traveling this path can be frightening. Emotions can change from day to day. I will be there to hold your hand, guide you through the process, answer your questions and your family's questions to the best of my ability. I offer guidance, comfort, advocacy, and my goal is to make the transition for you as meaningful and peaceful as possible.     


What is a Grief Coach?

    As a Grief Coach, I'm here to journey with you, validate and encourage you to embrace your feelings, and coach you from pain to peace. There is no right or wrong way to grieve. There is no handbook on how you "should" feel. There is no time limit on grief. As a Grief Coach, I will help you through exercises, meditation, active listening, and other tools to find your happiness again. It's ok to address the elephant in the room, so to speak, in my presence. Grief looks different for everyone. I respect and understand that people come from different cultures and beliefs and religions - you'll always have a safe space with me. You'll never hear me say, " That was so long ago, why are you still dwelling on that?" or "Haven't you gotten over these feelings? It's been 5 years." Sometimes, our support system breaks down. Soon after death, everyone begins to forget. People stop calling to check up on you. Life goes on for them. But what if you're stuck? Grief is a process. You can find hope again and embrace your future. 

My Promises to You

  •  I will help you navigate the space between the living and the dead, no matter how frightening it may seem.
  • I will encourage you to lean into your feelings. 
  • I will never make you feel guilty or pass judgement because of your feelings. Our space is a safe space. 
  • I will hold you up and support you until you feel you can stand on your own. 
  • I will be present in those moments where words just aren't enough. 
  • I will ensure your wishes are carried out to the best of my ability. 
  • I will engage with you and learn about you as a person.
  • I will hold space for you and your stories. 

 

  


Booking

Most services offered are available to be booked and paid for online without the hassle of e-mailing and waiting for a response. Please use the provided QR code, and I am looking forward to speaking with you. 

15 minute discovery appointment - $25

This is our introductory call. I'll ask a few questions, and I'd love to answer yours in return. We'll discuss your needs and supportive services I offer that you feel would be a good fit. 

Set of 4 Grief Coaching Sessions / 1hr each - $400

Initial session booked upon purchase, and 3 remaining sessions will be booked at client request. I want you, the client, to be in control of how often you need the support. Your grief journey should not follow a predetermined timeline.  We'll spend a total of 4 hours together (one-hour sessions), either via phone or zoom, where we'll talk about your grief journey, where you are now, where you want to be, and where we will create a safe space for your feelings to come through. The only way is through it.   

20 minute check-in session - $25

This offering is for current clients. If you need a mini support session in between scheduled sessions, this is for you.  

Add-on Sessions - 1hr (Grief Coaching) - $75 per session

This is for current clients. You are welcome to book and add on as many individual sessions as you feel fit, and you are free to schedule them at your convenience. Add-on sessions beyond the 4 or 8 session package are discounted. **Please be aware, this is for clients who purchased the 4 or 8 session package, and are in need of additional sessions. These sessions are discounted. 

Individual Grief Coaching Sessions / 1hr - $110

New clients are welcome to book individual sessions if the package of 4 or 8 doesn't work for you. 

Grief Coaching Sessions (package of 8) / 1hr each session - $600

Initial session booked upon purchase, and 7 remaining sessions will be booked at client request. I want you, the client, to be in control of how often you need the support. Your grief journey should not follow a predetermined timeline.  We'll spend a total of 8 hours together (one-hour sessions), either via phone or zoom, where we'll talk about your grief journey, where you are now, where you want to be, and where we will create a safe space for your feelings to come through. The only way is through it.   **Discounted rate

Virtual Death Doula Services (8 hours of time) - $400

 I want you to choose how this time is spent. I can listen to your stories, jot down notes and give them to your family after your passing, I can transcribe letters to your family and or friends and send them for you, I can sit with you virtually on camera and work through difficult end of life challenges, etc. NEDA code of ethics and scope of practice will always be followed. Trust and safety is always necessary.  **Booking is defaulted at a one hour interval, but please contact me to schedule your virtual appointments.  

Other Death Doula Offerings

  • Support with stillborn and infant death. 
  • Holding space while life support is being discontinued. 
  • Legacy projects such as publishing written stories. 
  • Making phone calls for family to announce the death.

 

Please contact me via e-mail for pricing and scheduling, or book a discovery appointment.

DeathwalkerXing@gmail.com 

Service Areas

We can make arrangements for in-person Grief Coaching or Death Doula services in the San Bernardino area, however the online price may be adjusted for distance/travel. Other areas can be served virtually either by zoom or phone, it's completely your prerogative. I don't mind getting on camera if my presence eases you. I am able to virtually serve any client, regardless of location.  

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Things to Remember

As a Certified Grief Coach and a NEDA proficient Death Doula, I am bound by the code of ethics and scope of practice. Adherence to these policies and procedures are non negotiable. For further information, please visit  Home - NEDA - National End-of-Life Doula Alliance and  Welcome to ICF | International Coaching Federation 

Education

I received my Grief Coach Certification from Dora Carpenter, via the "From Grief to Gratitude" coach certification program. I am currently in good standing with the IOPGC (Institute of Professional Grief Coaching).   

I am a member of NEDA (National End of Life Doula Alliance) in good standing, and I am NEDA proficient

I have 1.5 CE hours through the Hospice Foundation of America in the subject of "Pediatric Hospice and Palliative Care Overview, Opportunities and Challenges."

I have 1.5 CE hours through the Hospice Foundation of America in the subject of "Understanding Ambiguous Loss."


 I have 1.5 CE hours through the Hospice Foundation of America in the subject of "Suicide Loss."  

I have 2.5 CE hours through the Hospice Foundation of America in the subject of "Trauma and Loss."


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